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Finding Your Soul Mate Quickly!

Soul Mate Test: NO is about boundaries and identification.
You have to know who you are if you want to find someone to be perfect for you. By and large the vast majority of us need to become better focused about things we choose to have in our lives. This is true for all things, from everyday practical matters to dealing with distressing emotions. The mystery is to know how to achieve a clear mind and then to find the solutions to issues that trouble us. The 7 Words System offers a simple innate logic that permits us to get a greatly improved knowledge of what precisely we are trying to find. It starts with No. Primarily we need to identify faithfully what it is that actually we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Soul Mate Test: HELLO is about openness and exchange.
Look around and see what's happening, to you, to others...learn what works for others and think about it carefully. The second step relates to the word Hello. We may well have to make ourselves open to new ways to see everything if we expect to develop our choice of answers to the troubles that life throws up. Is that reasonably logical? To get something new we will need to extend our sphere of awareness and look where we have not previously looked earlier. Fresh thoughts, new contacts , new situations and new things are clearly facets of giving a degree of awareness to something we have not until that time faced. This necessitates that we replace old for new, that can tender something in reasonable return for what we want to acquire for ourselves.

Soul Mate Test: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.
How well are you expressing your appreciation? Can you find qualities to admire in people you meet; the best qualities are usually deeper, often hidden. Between all existing choices, some are more pleasing than others and of course we want them to have a higher merit, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Habitually, we overlook the importance of what we have, fall into ingratitude and are likely to assume what should not be assumed. It's more than just a courtesy to demonstrate our appreciation for things we regard as valuable; it has a major part to play in helping us to achieve our goals. In some unconscious way, we are attracted to what we convey gratitude for, and yet it's equally accurate to say that we can to draw them to us too. We improve our pulling power when we say Thanks and therefore, in doing this, we effortlessly bring things towards us.

Soul Mate Test: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.
Are you willing to realize that after finding a soul mate life has changed and will be forever different. Are you willing to change? The word Goodbye is the fourth of the 7 primary words and relates to a progression that has 4 clearly defined phases. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. Goodbye is being said to a particular stage of development, and so could be perceived simply as total dismissal of a viable course of action that we had been progressing towards and in future will not pursue. It is a crossroad point in our selection of possible futures. Goodbye is different from No in that it suggests that there has been a degree of involvement already, which now needs to end compared to No's rejection in the first place. Genuine decisions cut the past away utterly and that sharpness makes an open door that otherwise does not materialize.

Soul Mate Test: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.
How do you cooperate to find harmony? You do have a vision of a successful partnership? The future reveals itself according to the customs of what has gone before unless we take control of it and shape it to our needs. This requires us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, precise and positive converted into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is to some extent unreal and the second is much more centered and controlled. For a vision to become real there must be help. Nothing can be achieved without acquiring the support of other people - this takes expertise, in all probability influence, , even motivation. It is not always essential to present something such as money or money's worth.

Soul Mate Test: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.
Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist? Sorry, the sixth word, is best seen as repairing damage done if we've been insensitive or oblivious to the needs or wants of someone else. The best plan is to make sure we preclude the need to say it by being thoughtful in advance. Why? Well it's because anyone we upset could easily be inclined to act against our better purposes and lower our chances of accomplishing what we intend, so it is simply more sensible to take into account others as well as ourselves. It is all to do with being responsible, having a degree of concern for someone whom we've upset and making recompense when we've done wrong. Only then is it possible to avoid or fix any offense and leave go of the unending unpleasantness that otherwise would grow and worsen.

Soul Mate Test: YES is about accepting and surrender.
Sometimes unacceptable behaviour just has to be accepted. How tolerant are you? The final stage of our 7 Words structure relates with acceptance; there are times when we simply have to tolerate what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be lovely wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in reality we can't. We always need to take what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for.

The paramount technique is to have an expectation that everything sooner or later turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when seen in the perspective of the longer term. Certainly it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Nevertheless pause a while and you may well see that the unlooked-for happenings, the surprises and failures are actually the best bits veiled as trouble.

James Burgess 2008

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