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How to Act When You Like a Woman – Part 4

BEING INDIFFERENT

Most people in this world are attached to the outcomes of things. They're constantly worrying about what's going to happen... and talking about the future in a fearful, uncertain way.

This type of person always wants to know what other people think of them, and they're worrying about what they should do so other people will like them. Unfortunately, this almost always comes across as insecurity. An indifferent person, on the other hand, just goes about life and takes things as they come.

The indifferent person is indifferent to the outcome of whatever situation they're in.

If it's a man, and he's approaching a woman, he will be OK with whatever happens. If she's nice to him, great. If she's uptight, no problem. If she's rich, famous, and beautiful... and starts coming on to him, fine. No big deal.

When you are attached to the outcome of a situation, it makes you act all kinds of freaky. You pause, act nervous, hold back, look for approval, act insecure... and any of 100 other unattractive things.

On the other hand, when you're indifferent to the outcome, it makes you magnetic. Especially when it comes to women and dating. Indifference is the ultimate way to show a lack of insecurity in life.

BEING FUNNY

Humor is magic.

It's a complete mystery why we find things "funny" and why we "laugh".

Crying because someone died makes some logical sense. It's a bad thing, and crying expresses a negative emotion.

But when you see a dog run into a window because he doesn't see it... and he gets a confused look on his face, you laugh. What's with that?

Humor is interesting to me, in that if you're funny, it makes people feel good inside. They laugh, and it triggers positive feelings.

If you're not naturally funny, it's a great skill to learn. Read books. Watch live comedy. Do whatever it takes to learn how to be funny.

Most of the "coolest" guys I know are wickedly funny. Some of them are only funny on occasion... but they "get it"... and when they do make a joke, it's damn funny.

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